Monday, December 24, 2012
Blog 10: Crushes & liking someone.
A lot people are at the age where they have a crush on someone or like someone. So here's some advice on how to handle it. Firstly, don't run up to them and be obnoxious. Guys/girls don't like it when people are obnoxious. It's a first impression and when people say first impression means everything-it does. I'll make another blog about that at another time. But don't go straight up to the person and say 'YOU. ME. DINNER.' it may work in movies but it doesn't work in real life. Secondly, don't have your friends talk to that person for you. That will make you look shy and that you are nervous to be around them. So then they will think 'well if we go out he/she will always be nervous and that's awkward.' That wouldn't be good. Thirdly, don't push the person to like you. Constantly bringing it up and constantly talking about things along the line can make the other person less interested. Let things come naturally and whatever happens, happens. You will go through a lot of people not liking you back and it'll hurt, but there will always be someone better. Lastly, BE YOURSELF. I have mentioned this so many times in my blog but it's because it's true. People like the real you and not a fake person. Because if you lie about things, that will make the person think you're a liar and lied about everything.